Who wants to be online dating forever? No one, yet so many singles aren’t doing enough to get the most out of the online dating service they are using. That could change with this advice, you could be meeting someone within a month.
Use your free trials
Every dating service offers you a free trial so there’s no reason not to try out a few at once. Find out which one has the most singles living in your area then concentrate on that one. Your profile will stay on the other services so you can go back to them if you choose too.
Put a photo on your profile
Uploading a photo onto your profile will get you 10 – 15 times more messages and e-mails. It will also give your profile more priority in other single’s search results. Singles can also choose to only have profiles with photos listed in their search results.
Fill in your profile
When a single has clicked on your profile they will want to read something about you. So many singles have empty profiles, and wonder why they don’t get contacted. They need to feel attracted to something other than your looks. Tell them your goals and ambitions, they will have something to relate to, and want to find out more about you.
Upgrade your membership
Upgrading your membership will allow you more benefits. You can start sending e-mails instead of relying on flirts. These add a personal touch to your message, and they get read and replied too more often.
You can mention something that you have read in their profile. This will show them you haven’t sent the same message to 20 different singles.
Online dating services will give your profile some more priority if you login more often. Other singles can see on your profile that you login often as well so they will feel more inclined to contact you. Singles don’t contact other singles that haven’t been online for a month.
Don’t hide yourself while online
Some singles like to hide themselves so they don’t get messages sent to them while they’re browsing the profiles. Doing this could make you miss out on your ideal mate contacting you. There’s nothing wrong in declining a conversation with someone. It happens a lot online.
Don’t cold call anyone
Going back to the messages. Never cold call anyone you haven’t introduced yourself to with an e-mail. Send an e-mail first to see if the single would be interested in a conversation with you. It saves any embarrassment later of being rejected or ignored.
Start using this advice, and you should have a shorter lifespan while online dating. You don’t want to be doing it for months, do you?